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Okay, I read something a bit ago that rather confused me... I was trying to look up a children's height/weight chart to figure out an appropriate weight for Mark for the "100 Things" bit, and I stumbled onto this page for teens that answers a bunch of questions. Now... keep in mind that some of them are rather stupid, like "Is it normal to get erections?" (Yes, DUH)... but there was this one about masturbation, so I clicked on it because I was curious as to how the site would respond. The beginning states, and I quote:
Masturbation is when people rub their own genitals (the penis in males or the area around the vagina in females) because they like the way it feels and sometimes are attempting to give themselves an orgasm.
.....sometimes? Now... maybe this is just me, but isn't orgasm the POINT? This answer confuses me. Again, maybe it's just me... but I know that when I do it, the goal is orgasm, and I don't stop until I come (save for extenuating circumstances, of course). At least once. But, you know, that depends on how randy I am at the time. *wink* As far as I'm concerned, if I don't come, it's been a waste of time. (and it just occurred to me how that's a rather MALE way of looking at it, actually -_-) Then again... now that I'm really thinking about it, that pretty much sums up my whole approach to the whole thing anyway. There's no teasing, no foreplay, just get down there and get this over with as fast as possible. I know that happens because even now, the idea of it embarrasses the hell out of me. Logically... yes, I know that I'm 23 years old and single and there are needs that must be met- and obviously I must be the one to take care of this. It's still... completely mortifying. The "let's get this over with" mentality really covers my attitude about it rather well. So yes, even though it still feels incredible, I wouldn't see the point beyond the orgasm because I've never really experienced anything beyond that.
Okay. I think I've reached my "mortification limit" for the day now. Later!
*EDIT* Oh. My. God. I just dicovered the Gender Genie... it's WAY too much fun. Like... check this out. I put in a couple of my completed fics in there, they both said female (though "All That Matters" was a close call). I then put in a couple of my journal entries, and they both said male. Eh? Figure that one out. Apparently I write fic like a girl, but I ramble like a boy. You know... because THAT makes sense. *headdesk* I just find it funny. But for clarification: I am female. As in, I have boobs, and no dick. Heh.
*EDIT 2* Note to self: Slow is good. Extremely good. However, one must remember to KEEP the pace slow when one gets close. It ruins everything if one just starts going at it like a maniac all of a sudden x_x As learned from experience today. (What can I say, I was curious after the discussion earlier)
Masturbation is when people rub their own genitals (the penis in males or the area around the vagina in females) because they like the way it feels and sometimes are attempting to give themselves an orgasm.
.....sometimes? Now... maybe this is just me, but isn't orgasm the POINT? This answer confuses me. Again, maybe it's just me... but I know that when I do it, the goal is orgasm, and I don't stop until I come (save for extenuating circumstances, of course). At least once. But, you know, that depends on how randy I am at the time. *wink* As far as I'm concerned, if I don't come, it's been a waste of time. (and it just occurred to me how that's a rather MALE way of looking at it, actually -_-) Then again... now that I'm really thinking about it, that pretty much sums up my whole approach to the whole thing anyway. There's no teasing, no foreplay, just get down there and get this over with as fast as possible. I know that happens because even now, the idea of it embarrasses the hell out of me. Logically... yes, I know that I'm 23 years old and single and there are needs that must be met- and obviously I must be the one to take care of this. It's still... completely mortifying. The "let's get this over with" mentality really covers my attitude about it rather well. So yes, even though it still feels incredible, I wouldn't see the point beyond the orgasm because I've never really experienced anything beyond that.
Okay. I think I've reached my "mortification limit" for the day now. Later!
*EDIT* Oh. My. God. I just dicovered the Gender Genie... it's WAY too much fun. Like... check this out. I put in a couple of my completed fics in there, they both said female (though "All That Matters" was a close call). I then put in a couple of my journal entries, and they both said male. Eh? Figure that one out. Apparently I write fic like a girl, but I ramble like a boy. You know... because THAT makes sense. *headdesk* I just find it funny. But for clarification: I am female. As in, I have boobs, and no dick. Heh.
*EDIT 2* Note to self: Slow is good. Extremely good. However, one must remember to KEEP the pace slow when one gets close. It ruins everything if one just starts going at it like a maniac all of a sudden x_x As learned from experience today. (What can I say, I was curious after the discussion earlier)
